When You Shouldn't Trust Your Heart!

I have something to share with you that I hope you remember as you walk hand in hand into your relationships!

The Heart Is Ever Hopeful

 

The heart always wants to be in love. It always craves connection because the heart know that connection to another at the super vulnerable level of LOVE has the power to heal...even if your head decides you've had enough of heart break...your heart has a love switch that takes alot to turn off.

The thing is...LOVE only has the power to heal in very specific circumstances.


1. You need to be ready to be vulnerable

2. You need to have done your inner work when single, so that you KNOW yourself so well there is no doubt as to when your triggers are going off...cause let's face it, in relationship they will! AND

3. You need to choose a partner that is conscious enough to meet you in CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIP...because let's face it, anything else is soooo not worth your beautiful Soul's time and effort.

Sure, there are some other things to check such as "Do you both want the same things out of life?" or "Do they want children?" or "Do they have any beliefs that don't gel with yours?" because most of us FORGET to check in with ourselves when we are attracted to someone.

The feelings quickly take over and the heart can become quickly hooked if we don't do our homework!

And so...this is partly why we shouldn't always trust our heart because our heart is so hopeful that it launches it's love attack on our bodies very easily and infiltrates our brain with images of future's that may not come to pass!

Now, I'm not trying to get you to dismiss your heart either. You see, we NEED a marriage of heart, soul and mind when it comes to love.

Your head can quickly dismiss people who may be perfect for you!

Your heart can latch onto people who are truly BAD for you and who may hold you back from you reaching your highest purpose.

Your SOUL however, knows if a person is ultimately right for you!

You need all three to be ALIGNED and to then keep a watchful eye for signs of subconscious attraction coming into play.
 
You see, it's not just the heart that's involved here!

Our subconscious selves, highly programmed in childhood, come out to play when dating and in our relationships. We are attracted to people not just because of how they look or how funny they are or how cool they appear to be. We are also attracted to them somewhat unfortunately, based on our match of inner WOUNDS!

This is where we need to look at our ENERGETIC FREQUENCY! What are we putting out there? Even when we say we want one thing, why do we end up with another!?

Take these inner wounds for example. They may manifest themselves differently, but many times they are there in our choice of partner all the same. And so it's best as a CONSCIOUS CREATOR of love to be a SEEKER OF TRUTH inside and out when it comes to matters of the heart.

You see your first TRUE LOVE is that of yourself. We believe as children this is our parents and in many ways this can be the case...but your Parents love was perhaps conditional based on their beliefs about who you should be and show up as...and so our first TRUE LOVE is truly US because we are the ONLY ones who can love ourselves FULLY into the powerful Conscious Creators we are meant to be!...more on that another day...but you can see how important it is to literally FALL IN LOVE with OURSELVES, because then we will NEVER accept a love that is less than our own love!

I've just delivered you a golden key!

Though you may be left wondering what I'm going on about! The truth is, without you recovering all the lost parts of yourself,...things you have dismissed and diminished...and without you really KNOWING yourself, you are at a deficit when you step into relationship.

You know that old saying of "my other half" or that even more abhorrent one "You complete me!"...this is what happens when we are attracted to those people who have matching wounds (WOUND MATES disguised as SOUL MATES) OR we are attracted to those who have the elements of ourselves that we have not yet reintegrated or owned!

Instead of feeling like a whole person stepping into relationship with another whole person, many times we suddenly feel so at home because the other person emodies the very thing(s) we are being asked by Soul to own and instead of doing that work, we bring someone into our experience who has "done it for us".

I'll be speaking more on this topic and talking all things relationship this week on Facebook so make sure you join my Soul Circle to get the inside scoop on becoming more Conscious in your Relationships!

Back to the heart and why, at times, it can be misleading...

When the heart leads without our awareness (head in sync) and Soul (Soul intuition switched on guiding you with prompts of yes and no)...then the heart can and WILL lead you down the merry path of "True Love" time after time after time.

We've all lived this...those relationships we thought were fruitful that we found left us with crumbs!

You, as a Conscious Lover KNOW that you deserve more and so I encourage you to look deep within and ask yourself what you truly desire. Find out what you truly NEED. Uncover your wounds around men or women (look at your parents first for any woundings around male or female) and look at your conditioning (the beliefs you have about yourself and love in particular in this case!) and what you need to embody before stepping into love.

I'm NOT saying that you have to be perfect! Not AT ALL...but you do have to be AWARE because awareness breeds consciousness and when you do the work you have way MORE of a chance of delivering to yourself a love that is lasting rather than a love that causes you the heart break we all fear.

Sure...heartbreak is still gonna happen sometimes because we are human and no one is perfect and makes perfect choices AND sometimes we need to learn who is wrong for us before we KNOW WHO'S RIGHT!


I look forward to connecting with you Conscious Lovers more this week!

😉

Gail.x.

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The Paradigm of Encouragement - Our Future Model?

I wanted to write to you this week about the up-leveling that we are heading towards in our realms of understanding about the power of words along with the power of intention.

Many are coming to understand that WORDS hold power and that our INTENTION is the key to manifestation of our highest potential.

For those who understand this, you will understand where we are going...for those who are yet to fully grasp this...let me explain...

We were born and bred into a society that saw PUNISHMENT as the perfect "control" system. This system was used in school (think belts and rulers), at home (think "go to your room" or the "naughty step") and unfortunately, we still see this way of being used in the workplace and in our government systems.

All we have to do is to look at the rabble that happens in politics to witness the old paradigm of Punishment.

I believe this system started from the INTENT of CONTROL and POWER. You know...where one King decided a land should be his and thus sent his army out to take it and here we created WAR...the reflection of the battle inside that EGO wages!

The belief that OWNERSHIP meant more POWER and RICHES had man do this for millenia...infact...that in itself, still exists. The INTENT for power covers the belief of FINITE RESOURCES & ultimately LACK which EGO thrives in.

However, there is another paradigm that is appearing all be it more slowly.

This is the paradigm of ENCOURAGEMENT!

Slowly we are staring to understand that PUNISHMENT leads only to pain and people who then lose their power and that by being the perpetrator we ALSO lose power...this is the JOKE that EGO knows and plays.

We are now starting to see many experiments now after Dr Emoto's discoveries of crystals in water and how they were affected my positive and negative language spoken to the water. This didn't matter what language was spoken because it is about the POWER of words and therefore the POWER OF INTENTION.

When a negative word was spoken the crystal was malformed. When a positive word was spoken the crystal was clear and beautifully formed.

Recent experiments have used boiled white rice in clean glass jars where the negative jar turns mouldy whilst the positive jar remains white and clear of disease.

Another recent experiment done in a school shows the children speaking to a plant negatively whilst another is given loving thoughts and words. The plant who is bullied starts to die whilst the plant who is ENCOURAGED thrives!

You see where I am going with this right?...

The old paradigm of PUNISHMENT has hurt and damaged us. It's why there's a need for the work that I do...because someone has to unravel the sh*t storm of negativity that the entity of EGO has caused.

Many of us are so layered with LACK, CONTROL & FEAR that have simply become part of our personalities that we don't even know we have been CONDITIONED away from our true and loving SOUL SELVES!

But whether Ego likes it or not...The paradigm of ENCOURAGEMENT is coming!

The time is coming where we are recognising that hitting our children and screaming at them only brings more hate and disconnection. Where we see that despising one another only leads to more  pain and Ego control within ourselves. A time where we witness that ENCOURAGING one another not only aids the person we speak to but it floods us with MORE of our TRUE POWER because we are then directly connected to our SOUL!!!

I am reminded of Monsters Inc University. In this movie we witness how the Monsters go from believing that the only way to get the energy they need is to put fear into the hearts of little children. It takes some time, but they eventually realise, through developing an unwavering and unfearful connection (you see why I love inner child work ;) who just wants to LOVE them, that her LOVE and LAUGHTER creates more energy than anything PUNISHMENT ever did!!!

Here in our 3D world we are starting to encourage our children more to be true to themselves and not just follow the system.

We are learning to be more conscious about the words that we speak within...as within, so without!

We are learning to remove negativity from our daily lives by not watching the news and instead filling our minds with Super Soul Sunday.

We are learning to heal, and grow and uncover and discover and leave the 9-5 to travel the world.

To grow spiritual businesses and to BELIEVE that anything is possible for us so long as we are aligned with our SOUL.

And so....I want to encourage you to stand up to your own EGO because in truth, we can only take the leap into an ENCOURAGEMENT paradigm with as many people who believe in this way of being more than the ones who love outer POWER and CONTROL.

The thing is, those people don't understand that this is not TRUE POWER and believe me when I say that their version of power always crumbles eventually.

The only TRUE power is SOUL ALIGNED and SOUL LED and your Soul will never say anything about you that is "bad". It will always encourage you to grow and shine and whilst it may give you a Universal butt kick sometimes, that's only because WE AREN'T LISTENING to our Soul's guidance and so to stop us from going too far down a path that is less becoming than Soul knows we are capable of, Soul will eventually guide us back on course.

So ask yourself, what am I doing today that will lead me into the Paradigm of ENCOURAGEMENT!?

Because we need you....it's going to take many of us to create this wave and transform our planet and we may not see it fully realised in our life time yet but we need to start for our future...for our children's future....for humanities future.

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Gail.x.

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Law Of Attraction In Action!

I wanted to share with you some law of attraction busting tips with you and then thought I'd make it sound more positive LOL! Because there IS and ARE ways of tapping into and using Law Of Attraction, HOWEVER, THIS is the type of picture describing Law Of Attraction that get's my Capricorn Goat all in a tiz!

So I decided that I'm going to myth BUST and also share with you some of the ways you can get Law Of Attraction on your side.

Myth Busting 1:

You are NOT going to bring your desires to your door gift wrapped with a note saying "Sent from the Universe". It just doesn't work like that! And the Universe certainly ain't delivering it to you sat in your bedroom whilst you pray for it ;)

To align with your dreams and desires there are a few things that need to be in place first like:

1. Are you negatively charged?...meaning, do you think sh*t about yourself? Do you speak to yourself with kindness? Do you BELIEVE you can and you will and are you TAKING ACTIONABLE STEPS towards your desires?

The Universe can (and will) only meet you where you are willing to meet it!

It's not going to put you in baby reigns and do it for you and it certainly isn't going to show up at your door with the aformentioned gift wrapped parcel with glitter and dreams just waiting to shower you with Universal offerings. YOU..yes YOU..have to be willing to do some of the work.

Myth Busting 2:

The Law Of Attraction works by simply putting your focus on your desires and if you believe enough they will manifest...Um...

JUST NO...

Apart from the action taking required that I just spoke of, you are going to need to CHECK yourself.
If you are trying to win the lottery, or meet that perfect man or woman, or become a size 0 the chances are you are trying to use the Law Of Attraction to fill in huge GAPING GAPS!

The Gaps are where your beliefs about yourself and your subconscious are playing in the GAME of Manifestation. 

Yup...the GAME...they are not serious AT ALL about bringing you into alignment with the money, or the partner, or the body...because your beliefs are clutching onto the false mantra that it's all about BELIEF and you then miss doing the INNER WORK here my love!

Our Subconscious Programming is running the show when it comes to what we truly believe is FOR us or what we are CAPABLE of achieving. If you don't do the inner work of reconnecting to your inner child, healing the Ego and cultivating a Soul Voice then you are doing yourself a HUGE dis-service and it's likely that whilst you may be able to manifest a discounted concert ticket or a free meal perhaps, you aren't likely to be able to manifest the BIGGER stuff or you may manifest what appears to be the BIG stuff but it then becomes a bit like the Wizard of Oz. You know, that bit when the Wizards suddenly outed for being a fraud!

So do your inner clearing and healing work before you set your sights on MR or MRS Made For You because you may very well need to manifest them a ticket back to OZ when the mask crumbles!

Myth Busting 3:

You just need to stay HIGH VIBES and your Law Of Attraction skills are syncing with the Universal flow....um...HELLO...

We are HUMAN BEINGS and have a range of emotions that need to be honoured. 

We need to listen to these parts of ourselves and get REALLY CLEAR on who is communicating with us from within.

Whether it's our Inner Child needing our attention or our Ego trying to stop us from growing into our NEXT LEVEL SELF, we need to know who's IN THERE before we can truly manifest and if we try to feign POSITIVITY on top of unhealed aspects of us we are actually doing more harm than good!

Don't dismiss yourself. Law Of Attraction doesn't work by fake it until you make it! You have to FEEL IT TO ALIGN WITH IT!

Which brings me to the last myth...

Myth Busting 4:

Law Of Attraction will give you ANYTHING you want...(they missed a bit)...
....so long as you are in ALIGNMENT!

You MUST not only FEEL like you are going to manifest it...because, as I said before...you may have enough free will energy that you align with it on one level but on another it's the Universes way of delivering what you REALLY need ;)

So you are delivered a situation that shows you what you are needing to heal instead of what you really want. You are shown the ways you are willing to be treated instead of that true love. The ways you are willing to diminish yourself instead of that flourishing career. The ways you are willing to listen to your Ego rather than do the inner work to heal.

When you use Law Of Attraction to fill up the parts of you that you haven't healed yet, The Universe will send you back what you NEED as a wake up call. 

It's tell you, you aren't aligned yet AND it's also communicating that you haven't fully aligned with your Soul!

You see, your Soul may not want you to meet that partner yet because Soul knows you have another couple of pieces of yourself to see and honour first. If you push it then you will be met with Mr or Mrs OZ..and you will be asked to SEE what parts of you need attending to.

Your Soul is always asking you to ALIGN with it. To come into a full knowing of self and to RISE up to a higher version and less conditioned version of you.

NOW THIS is the place where you want to manifest from! This is when you are TRULY HIGH VIBES because you are FULLY IN YOUR POWER!

You know what you really NEED as apposed to what you WANT and you WANT what your SOUL wants for you ;)

Law of Attraction in Alignment with SOUL is Exponential. Now with Soul's view of who you really are and who you are becoming and which area of life you want to channel your energies into...THAT is a person who is in sync with Law Of Attraction at it's best!!!

Law Of Attraction does exist but please use with with the very BEST of intentions.

Heal your inner child, clear your conditioned mind and align with your Soul Voice and THEN now aligned with your FULL POWER call in what is DESERVEDLY and RIGHTFULLY yours!

Gail.x.

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