Friday, 18 May 2018
I wanted to share with you some law of attraction busting tips with you and then thought I'd make it sound more positive LOL! Because there IS and ARE ways of tapping into and using Law Of Attraction, HOWEVER, THIS is the type of picture describing Law Of Attraction that get's my Capricorn Goat all in a tiz!
So I decided that I'm going to myth BUST and also share with you some of the ways you can get Law Of Attraction on your side.
Myth Busting 1:
You are NOT going to bring your desires to your door gift wrapped with a note saying "Sent from the Universe". It just doesn't work like that! And the Universe certainly ain't delivering it to you sat in your bedroom whilst you pray for it ;)
To align with your dreams and desires there are a few things that need to be in place first like:
1. Are you negatively charged?...meaning, do you think sh*t about yourself? Do you speak to yourself with kindness? Do you BELIEVE you can and you will and are you TAKING ACTIONABLE STEPS towards your desires?
The Universe can (and will) only meet you where you are willing to meet it!
It's not going to put you in baby reigns and do it for you and it certainly isn't going to show up at your door with the aformentioned gift wrapped parcel with glitter and dreams just waiting to shower you with Universal offerings. YOU..yes YOU..have to be willing to do some of the work.
Myth Busting 2:
The Law Of Attraction works by simply putting your focus on your desires and if you believe enough they will manifest...Um...
Apart from the action taking required that I just spoke of, you are going to need to CHECK yourself.
If you are trying to win the lottery, or meet that perfect man or woman, or become a size 0 the chances are you are trying to use the Law Of Attraction to fill in huge GAPING GAPS!
The Gaps are where your beliefs about yourself and your subconscious are playing in the GAME of Manifestation.
Yup...the GAME...they are not serious AT ALL about bringing you into alignment with the money, or the partner, or the body...because your beliefs are clutching onto the false mantra that it's all about BELIEF and you then miss doing the INNER WORK here my love!
Our Subconscious Programming is running the show when it comes to what we truly believe is FOR us or what we are CAPABLE of achieving. If you don't do the inner work of reconnecting to your inner child, healing the Ego and cultivating a Soul Voice then you are doing yourself a HUGE dis-service and it's likely that whilst you may be able to manifest a discounted concert ticket or a free meal perhaps, you aren't likely to be able to manifest the BIGGER stuff or you may manifest what appears to be the BIG stuff but it then becomes a bit like the Wizard of Oz. You know, that bit when the Wizards suddenly outed for being a fraud!
So do your inner clearing and healing work before you set your sights on MR or MRS Made For You because you may very well need to manifest them a ticket back to OZ when the mask crumbles!
Myth Busting 3:
You just need to stay HIGH VIBES and your Law Of Attraction skills are syncing with the Universal flow....um...HELLO...
We are HUMAN BEINGS and have a range of emotions that need to be honoured.
We need to listen to these parts of ourselves and get REALLY CLEAR on who is communicating with us from within.
Whether it's our Inner Child needing our attention or our Ego trying to stop us from growing into our NEXT LEVEL SELF, we need to know who's IN THERE before we can truly manifest and if we try to feign POSITIVITY on top of unhealed aspects of us we are actually doing more harm than good!
Don't dismiss yourself. Law Of Attraction doesn't work by fake it until you make it! You have to FEEL IT TO ALIGN WITH IT!
Which brings me to the last myth...
Myth Busting 4:
Law Of Attraction will give you ANYTHING you want...(they missed a bit)...
....so long as you are in ALIGNMENT!
You MUST not only FEEL like you are going to manifest it...because, as I said before...you may have enough free will energy that you align with it on one level but on another it's the Universes way of delivering what you REALLY need ;)
So you are delivered a situation that shows you what you are needing to heal instead of what you really want. You are shown the ways you are willing to be treated instead of that true love. The ways you are willing to diminish yourself instead of that flourishing career. The ways you are willing to listen to your Ego rather than do the inner work to heal.
When you use Law Of Attraction to fill up the parts of you that you haven't healed yet, The Universe will send you back what you NEED as a wake up call.
It's tell you, you aren't aligned yet AND it's also communicating that you haven't fully aligned with your Soul!
You see, your Soul may not want you to meet that partner yet because Soul knows you have another couple of pieces of yourself to see and honour first. If you push it then you will be met with Mr or Mrs OZ..and you will be asked to SEE what parts of you need attending to.
Your Soul is always asking you to ALIGN with it. To come into a full knowing of self and to RISE up to a higher version and less conditioned version of you.
NOW THIS is the place where you want to manifest from! This is when you are TRULY HIGH VIBES because you are FULLY IN YOUR POWER!
You know what you really NEED as apposed to what you WANT and you WANT what your SOUL wants for you ;)
Law of Attraction in Alignment with SOUL is Exponential. Now with Soul's view of who you really are and who you are becoming and which area of life you want to channel your energies into...THAT is a person who is in sync with Law Of Attraction at it's best!!!
Law Of Attraction does exist but please use with with the very BEST of intentions.
Heal your inner child, clear your conditioned mind and align with your Soul Voice and THEN now aligned with your FULL POWER call in what is DESERVEDLY and RIGHTFULLY yours!
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Saturday, 12 May 2018
Intuition...the Soul's nudge or the Fool's gold?
It's a tough question and one I experienced on both sides of the coin!
There are a few things that happen whilst we try to follow our gut instinct and so I'm going to try and explain how I see this "glitch" in the easiest way possible...here goes ;)
1. TUNED IN AND TAPPED ON
In this scenario you are tuned into the bigger picture; your higher self; someone elses issues; clear of limited thinking; clear of any conditioning...etc etc etc and you are simply feeling the guidance and TRUSTING it no matter whether it makes sense to your mind or not!
The percentage of people who are able to be like this even some of the time I think right now is limited BUT there are more who are becoming aware of some kind of internal guidance system. They perhaps just don't know how to use it yet.
This is where we are aiming to get to. A clear "knowing" with a direct gut response that gives us clear guidance on something that perhaps our mind would dismiss!
You are able to find the balance of "good" and "bad" and eventually if you hone this skill you will be able to trust either of these as gifts because you will be able to see how each intuitive experience was guiding you towards you highest good at all times!
2. TUNED INTO THE WRONG FREQUENCY
Sometimes we can believe that we are picking up on an intuitive signal when actually we are slightly off centre. Our guts are super sensitive and if our THINKING is off...perhaps due to limiting beliefs about the self or old programming from our past then we can become focused on perhaps the "negative" side of intuition.
This is where we are so programmed to focus on only CERTAIN types of energies that we perhaps only intuit "negative" things and over time start to develop fear around our intuitive guidance!
3. FEAR LEADS THE WAY
Unfortunately, our Solar plexus...the home of our intuition...our emotional brain...can become clogged. If we have been in fearful circumstances (perhaps when young) we can start to clog our gut with a black cloud of doubt.
We doubt it's guidance because Fear speaks first. Fear has direct access to our brain and, for most of us, we have a fear voice that tells us that we "aren't good enough" or we are "too much" and perhaps we also have done lots of tuning into fear (as explained above) that we simply have trained our gut to pick up on "problems".
Fear thwarts our true connection to self and so someone who has trouble having any kind of intuitive guidance can have issues with fear blocking this essential life giving power centre.
4. BODY DISCONNECTION & MIND CONTROL
We are mostly trained out of recognising our body wisdom. We learn to sit still and focus on learning outside of ourselves and so we start to lose that intuitive wisdom that our body naturally holds over time.
We become very brain trained and most of that focus is on left brain activities where our artistic self, which way more connected to our bodies that our left brain self, isn't as developed perhaps.
Living a head-led life will stop intuitive guidance before it ever really truly begins because we aren't even aware that our bodies are speaking to us. From this place we NEED to reconnect to our bodies through meditation, movement such as dance, cleaning up our diets and re-learning about the feelings that we naturally HAD that are now coming back online!
5. WILL IS THE WAY
Sometimes our personal will gets in the way. We can long for something SOOOO much or we can be afraid of losing something perhaps or be determined that we are going in a certain direction and thus we miss all of our intuitive guidance because our WILL is leading the way.
Whilst determination can be an amazing trait our FREE WILL isn't always so great because it can decide, against Soul's guidance, which path it is taking and ignore the signs happening all around that tell us we are going against the Universe's best advice.
It's tricky because Source will never make you choose your Soul...but it will keep sending red flags or white flags along your path so that you have the CHOICE of which path to take.
If you are a person who's personal will is pretty plucky ;) then my advice to you would be to learn to pull back a little and question what the best path is. Even if your intuition doesn't creep back "online" straight away, the questioning will help you to start to discern which are the next steps in alignment with your Soul's guidance.
6. SOUL NEEDS YOU TO EXPERIENCE SOMETHING
Soul does this sneaky thing where you can be guided by your intuition and be on point but the guidance may be to keep going in a certain way UNTIL you learn something about yourself or a situation that you wouldn't have been able to or gotten so quickly to had you not had the guidance.
For example, you may have stayed in a relationship just that bit too long and the guidance may have been to leave, but you wouldn't have learned as quickly about how spot on your inner guidance was without the relationship testing you...and yes...that one happened to me.
In truth it's happened a few times in different situations. It's less than the knowings that are "correct" but there are times when intuition is meant to lead you to an apparent DEAD END simply because Soul is trying to teach you to let go, to clear a belief, to have you be somewhere else, to have you become the true you, to heal you ...the list goes on and on and on :)
Your intuition can only really take you off track if you are disconnected in some of the ways above. You will start to KNOW you are online and connected when you start to TRUST the guidance more.
The only way I knew for sure that my intuition was ramping up was that the feeling was getting BIGGER each time and the more the guidance was confirmed that then activated a stronger KNOWING that I couldn't deny.
So the advancement of internal guidance is really determined by how much you are willing to HONE this amazing skill that most humans have forgotten!
For number 6....there is no way to avoid this if you truly want to be Soul led and the truth is whatever Soul is leading you towards is a darn sight more useful than whatever we TRY to lead ourselves to.
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Saturday, 5 May 2018
In looking for an image that explains today's strangely named topic I came across this image. It speaks volumes to me of the prison that many times we are left in unaware of our jailer and more importantly, our own significance and power!
There are many times where Ego surfaces in our life to protect us. Ego's job, in part, is to protect us...if it has developed into a good, just, compassionate and caring parent within.
The problem is that, instead of being helped by our Ego, we are conditioned by it and our Ego has also rarely developed in full because it has been layered up with the beliefs and ideals of our Parents and beyond even them, down the family line.
But let's get back to self protection...
Self protection via the Ego is the kind that usually doesn't take risks. Ego, in this case, likes you just where you are thanks...even if it doensn't like you quite AS you are...but that's another story ;)
Ego will do it's best to hold you back from your truth if your truth looks scary; like a lot of hard work; like it's too risky; like you might get hurt; like you might fail; like you might be rejected etc etc AND ultimately like you might die. Ego is very afraid of death. Not particularly your actual death..but the fear of it's OWN self dying off and you waking up is very real to Ego and thus it will do whatever it can to stop that from happening.
So from here we can see that Ego believes that it is not only protecting you...it is protecting itself and it's HOST. The host being YOU.
Again, back to self protection ;)
Ego uses Self Protection as a way to hold you back but also it feeds a much deeper darker secret. Ego is using FEAR under the guise of self protection to also make you REJECT parts of yourself.
I'm always saying that Shadow holds many golden nuggets and this is because Ego aims to hide these gifts and talents and POWER in a place where you will never go looking!
Think about it!
It's the perfect place right? Hide your own gifts and amazingness from you in your own SELF REJECTION and you will most likely never find them.
Let me give you an example:
You are trained by your Parent's Ego that your sensitivity is "weakness". You learn that crying is NOT ok and you are unloveable in this state. You learn to hide your "weakness" and to put on a face that means even though you are bubbling inside, no one on the outside can see it.
Over time you adapt and become "stronger". You now see your impenetrability as a strength. The only emotion you allow is anger because you learned from your parents that this was allowed and so now other emotions, such as grief, anxiety or saddness are displayed in much the same way. Anger outbursts of emotion.
Your Ego's defence system is now on lock down. You inner child imprisoned within it's confines. The jailer is the Ego (and Ego of mum & dad or other caregivers) and the true you within it's prison.
The jailer goads you with REJECTION of the parts of you that are actually key talents and skills you have to use for your and others greater good in this lifetime.
Your inner jailer sounds like this...whenever you feel like crying, you berate yourself for being weak. Whenever your emotions are set to burst you project all over others for fear of being found out of being weak and afraid. Whenever your children cry you tell them "we don't do this"...and so the cycle repeats down the generations!
This is just one example but it's one that I'm sure you can see, has affected MANY people down the line. Men in particular...though there are generations of women who have been taught the same.
This is how Ego uses Self Protection as a way to diminish and REJECT the TRUE YOU and uses the lie of "you aren't worthy", "your too much", "you're weak", "you are ugly", "you aren't as good as", "you can't do it", "you're not capable", "you're a failure", "you'll never make it", "you'll never have it" which are all lines that prove that "you are ultimately un-loveable!"
Now you may be asking is there a way out of this?
The answer is a "HEAVEN YES" ;)
We have all been given FREE WILL. Now free will is talked about mostly negatively because Soul and Spirit can't make you wake up and most WILL chooses to stay asleep and believe the lie.
But here I want to introduce FREE WILL as a positive force.
Having free will means you have the ability to rise above Ego's conditioning and to escape the prison walls that hold you back. Let's face it, you can't be blamed, you were given the prison as a gift from a young age. You didn't know then that the only person holding the key that opens the door is YOU!
You believed what you were told about yourself. This lie became your own voice. It's hard to catch a voice that isn't yours when it sounds very much like you ;)
The key to unlocking you from this place is to cultivate a voice that diminishes the Egoic voice within.
You must retrain your mind to be your friend and reconnect to your body wisdom. The mind has become our cage over time and we have forgotten to connect with our hearts and to intuit with our guts. We aren't taught this language anymore but we MUST reclaim it!
Meditate; do Yoga; find tribe who connect with you on a higher level; fill your mind with Soul led books rather than watching the news; learn about your inner child and find out who you came into this life as; recollect the teachings of your parents and understand that there is a voice within that was never yours to begin with; clear yourself of any false beliefs and most importantly
QUESTION EVERYTHING YOU THINK!
Because consciousness always resides in the question. "Is that really true"; "Maybe something else is going on here what could that be?"; "Maybe it's not about me"; "What if I were capable"; etc etc
Ask yourself from a POSITIVELY charged mindset and cultivate this voice for your Soul voice will NEVER say anything bad about you. It's here to guide you to your GREATNESS and surely we all need a little bit more of that in our lives!
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