- Is Your Money Emotionally Unavailable? -

There's a concept I want to share with you that I see time and time again...

...that your money relates to your relationships!

What I mean by this is that your money shows up for you the way men do, your money shows up for you the way women do and ultimately, your money shows up for you the way YOU do!

Because ultimately money is generated BY you and THROUGH you the same way your intimate relationships are.

There are many who talk of money as ENERGY but for me money is NEUTRAL.

Money is something we PUT VALUE onto...just like we do with our intimate partners.

We FEEL feelings for our loved ones that generate ENERGY...but those people are simply people even if they themselves have their own feelings and energy...they are neutral in our world until WE place OUR energy there.

This is the same as money.

Money, being neutral, is only given energy once WE engage with it. 

Thus money interacts with us the way WE interpret it.

If we see it as a threat we may shut down from it.

If we see it as hard work we may keep blaming it for being so.

If we believe money only loves RICH/POSH/SNOBBISH people and we don't want to be that way, then we deny money from our world.

Or, If we are attracted to money but believe that we can't have it...money becomes Mr or Mrs Unavailable!

And then we start to view money similarly to the way we do in our intimate relationships.

You may hold onto money by hiding the little you you have and not wanting to share it or spend it which can become similar to control in relationships.

You may become judgemental about how much money you allow in...in a similar way to your "worthiness" around love.

You may believe that you can't have more money...which is similar to how your men or women show up for you in their ability to love you.

You may accept lower paying jobs that you are worthy of...just like the crumbs you are willing to take from an uncommitted partner!

You may spend every penny you have very easily because you don't value money...which can show the way you don't really value your relationship with money. Is this similar to relationship for you? Have you been told you don't value your partners...like there will be another Lover just around the corner!

There are LOTS of ways we can correlate our money issues with our love issues and so I know that if you have money problems you tend to have heart blocks...here's why...

Money, as said before is neutral.

You are the energy generator.

Your belief system around money are similar to the ones you have about love.

The reason for this is because much of our belief systems...at least the toxic ones...show up at unworthiness!

Unworthiness closes our heart energy.

It's been proven now, scientifially, that our heart energy is much stronger, wider and broader than the energy we omit from our minds.

So...if we feel unworthy...and we close our hearts because of our "unworthiness"...what do you think happens to your money generating abilities!???

See where I'm going with this?

Your HEART is your true GENERATOR!

Your heart is the generator of your ABUNDANT LIFE because it's ever hopeful!

Your heart, unfiltered by the minds doubts, has SO MUCH ENERGY that you can attract money if you simply switch your mind's position of Master to that of Side-Kick!

Your mind is a great generator of IDEAS when you allow your heart to remain open and responsive to your Soul's intuitive prompts.

If you let your mind take over and try to generate money from that place without remaining open (heart space) and connected to your gut (soul space)...then your money can float in the ether...just like that relationship you truly desire...because your mind (along with your protective Ego) won't believe that money is possible for you!

I hope you can feel how passionate I am about this topic because my true passion is not to make you Rich..though wouldn't that be lovely says your heart...it's to make you REAL.

It's my desire to help as many people to wake up to their true self and their amazing gifts and abilities and part of that is to help you to manifest more of YOUR money...the money that you truly deserve to become MORE of  your Soul Led Self.

I'd love to invite you to take a deeper look into your money blocks by watching  my FREE 3 part Money Blocks Blueprint Series. 

Simply CLICK HERE to join in the money blocks conversation and discover more about your own personal money flow!

Let's ALIGN with money and get rich in more ways than one!

Gail.x.

- Release Your Money Blocks -

Money has been portrayed for generations as a dirty word.

Embedded in the Collective Unconscious are images of humans who are money hungry which repel those of us who are heart-led and lead us into lack!

We have also been programmed by society and our family conditioning to believe the same about money.

Think of some of the phrases that have been dealt as truth down your family line. I'm sure you'll come up with a few that may sound like...


"Money doesn't grow on trees"

"You have to work hard to make money"

"Money is the root of all evil"

"Men make more money that Women"

"People who have money are snobby and lacking in empathy"

"People who have money dress smart and are skinny"


If you have any of these beliefs inside...and let's face it, who doesn't on some level!? 

They are literally blocking you from your ability to connect to the vibration of money and thus you feel lack instead of ABUNDANCE!

Let's look at money from a vibrational perspective to understand it more.

Let's consider that money is neutral..like water. 

Water is neutral UNTIL we add something to it.

There have been many studies on water that show that when you add a particular flower to it that water retains the "memory" of that particular flower!

Dr Emoto's work on water showed the powerful way that words affect water and thus the power way WE affect ourselves by our own words about ourselves because we are primarily made up of WATER!

Sceptical?...I urge you to watch the video below!

There's SCIENCE to this...not just hippy woo woo spiritual stuff 😉

So...if money is indeed like water...which I consider it to be considering the way if flows from one hand to another, one account to another AND just like water becomes an essential part of US, money transforms...it becomes food, drink, travel, gadgets, books, courses, gifts etc...therefore it is transmutable and something that has the ability to become whatever you desire it to be!

Money, as a transformative energy, can be an amazing and essential tool in your growth and evolution.

Far from being "evil" and "snobby", money has the ability to bring us JOY and FREEDOM...but of course...only if we use it wisely and only if we are connected to our Soul!

Money, ALIGNED with SOUL, sets you on a path of growth and helps you to reach your highest potential.

Looking at this in a simple and grounded way...if you don't have money you are in SURVIVAL mode...it's hard to grow and thrive when you are surviving on crumbs and feeling like you are only ever "making ends meet".

The reality is that you need to create a friendship with money and then you need to learn to have a RELATIONSHIP with money...yes, you heard me...get intimately connected to money...and discover your blocks to LOVING it!

Just like your own personal intimate relationship...your lessons around money and how you see it. 

How you project onto it and how you abuse it or neglect it...are rooted in your inner money wounds!

I work often with the inner child in client Soul Sessions. 

Your inner child is directly linked to your true Soul Self...and since the Soul Self is the driver for your Soul Purpose...it makes sense that your inner child and Soul are directly linked to your ability to manifest money.

Your money is simply waiting for you to fall in love with it and yourself!!!

 

Money, in our subconscious, is often related to masculine energy. 

We see this in our family conditioning, in society AND in our energy.

Most often when we desire to create money we feel we have to take ACTION and CREATE it.

This is true...but only in part!

The real truth about money is that you also have to ALLOW it!

You have to be open to receiving which means your feminine energy of emotion, love and receiving, needs to be activated also.

This means that your HEART has to be open...and this is hard if you don't trust yourself...if you essentially don't fully LOVE yourself when it comes to money.

Meaning...you can love who you are and what you do in the world...but if you don't love who you are around money and you don't love money itself (in a non-egoic way), then you will struggle to allow money into your life.

What if money doesn't grow on trees BUT it does grow from the SEED YOU PLANT!?

Meaning...what if you are FULL of money generating ideas?

What if your Soul knows EXACTLY how you can make more money?

What if the answer lies in the connection of you to your Soul Voice?

What if YOUR MONEY is simply waiting for you to collect it by becoming an open channel?

What if money shows up for you when you finally fall in LOVE with YOURSELF?

I want to add in something else...

...If you don't feel you have enough money you are unlikely to put money aside for your self care and you may feel guilty for putting money towards your GROWTH because somewhere hidden inside of you, there is the belief of lack and of not being able to create abundance, and paying for growth when you don't trust yourself and you don't trust money seems ridiculous!

HOWEVER...since money is energy and flows TO and FROM you...you HAVE to SPEND money in order to BRING IT BACK TO YOU!

Now...I'm not saying go crazy and spend all you have in order for you to manifest more abundance...no no no.

But what I am saying is that those who hold onto money (take old Scrooge for example 😜) have a real hard time keeping it!

These are the types of people who find that they money they are trying to hard to save disappears on a sudden car breakdown or leaking water pipe in their home.

They try over and over to keep their money with them and sadly end up chasing money away because their belief system stops the flow of money...it can't come back to them easily...and life is usually a struggle.

In my Money Blocks Blueprint Series I take you through the foundation of money...learning about your money and how it works RIGHT NOW in your life.

This is where we get to see EXACTLY how you deal with money.

OOoh...uncomfortable...maybe...but ESSENTIAL..YES!

We then go on to look at the limiting beliefs you hold around money. 

We also look at why your intimate relationships are often connected to your relationship with money!

We dive deep into your subconscious blocks around money and start to break you fee of the chains that are holding you back from YOUR money!

AND we take a look at changing your money basement and ceiling figures!

YOU have the ability to create way more abundance in your world than you realise...yes YOU...and I want to help you.

My Money Blocks Blueprint Video Series can be accessed from the comfort of your own home.

You'll receive around 70 mins of content where we will clear out your old unwanted money conditioning and start you on the path to connecting with your Soul's money manifesting MAGIC!

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Once you secure your place you'll be sent an email that includes the very first video and access to our Private Facebook Group where I'll be sharing more tips on bringing more abundance into your life.

I'm really looking forward to sharing with you more on the truth about your and YOUR money.

Feel free to SHARE THIS BLOG with anyone who you may know who could do with a different perspective on their money blocks! 😉

I'll see you on the inside,

Gail.x.

Acting As If It's Already There!

I was listening to another Spiritual Teacher the other day who was talking about "Acting As If.."

I'm not gonna lie. I found it hugely irritating lol!

I listened to the Spiritualising of this concept and found myself saying NO inside.

He spoke about acting as if you have (fill in the blank) like it's a done deal.

He mentioned that you...your future self...your higher self...whichever self you want to believe in...has already made whatever stuff you want to manifest happen!

It's all there...simply match with that alignment and there you go..POP...it appears.

He was talking about Relationships in particular and this made his point even more fluffy in my personal opinion and, just so you know..

...I am tired of Spiritual fluff! ;) 

Acting as if is not simply about imagining that you already have something because it's a "Done Deal" in some other paradigm. 

 

Acting as if does NOT, for the majority of us, bring you the person of your dreams to your doorstep when you haven't taken a look at your conditioning and cleared your shit because let's face it, your dream person is soooo dreamy that unless you are a pretty awakened conscious being, they very likely won't entertain any subconscious drama brought into the relationship.

Acting as if does NOT simply mean that if you wear Louis Vuitton that lots of money will suddenly appear in your bank account.

Acting as if does NOT suddenly make you a business person if you are crap at actually running your business and you haven't laid any foundations to make it run as a business. 

Acting as if does NOT make you a good Parent if you are only being nice about your kids in front of other people and being a tyrant behind closed doors.

Acting as if does NOT make you a kind person if you aren't kind to those you love and ultimately, kind to yourself!

Acting as if does NOT make the dream life happen without taking some action AND usually some kind of work that you probably don't readily want to do to make it happen!

Acting as if does NOT make you happy if underneath you are feeling insecure and have programming that tells you you're "too much" or "not enough!"

 

Are you catching my flow?...

From my point of view, Grounded Spirituality is needed here!

You see, all of us have some kind of Subconscious conditioning running somewhere in our lives. Perhaps in many areas...perhaps in just a few.

When we Act As If without taking a look at what is REALLY going on within us, we deny ourselves our future vision because we are literally ACTING!

I mean, I know we all want to be the star of our life's movie, but I'd much rather not ACT my way through it and live in ALIGNMENT with my Soul because I've grown to learn that...

...Soul knows the way much better than any "faking it till I make it" stuff I ever tried!

And as said in the pic above, sometimes Soul is gonna ask you to do something you sure as hell don't want to!

 

Sometimes we are going to have to do things that are hard and make us feel like we can't go forward or are failing.

We are going to have to own our inability to talk with emotional balance and to face off the demons we carry around from our childhood.

Sometimes we are going to have to push through periods of time when we need to learn something that we find difficult for our relationships to thrive or for our business to work...just as sometimes we are going to have to slow down or stop when we want to keep charging on with a project and have forgotten about ourselves and our loved ones.

There are many ways of being that we need to become aware of before our future selves can deliver to us the life we dream of and....

...Sometimes we are just going to have to accept defeat because Soul is guiding us towards a path that is so much better for us than we can ever imagine!

 

 There are MANY times, due to us having Free Will and due to the nature's we are born with (I love astrology to help with this one!) that come along with their own set of "things" to learn AND due to our conditioning that we take paths that are part of our life's learnings...which is all good by the way...BUT, they may not be the best path we could take for our Soul's purpose to manifest. 

Soul will try to send us curve balls or red flags in the aim that we become more conscious of our repeating patterns and conditioned mind and take heed!

Soul's hope for us is not that we don't go through any hardship, but that we wake up to our true selves and our conditioning as quickly as we can and as part of this 3D human experience at the moment, it's the quickest way to wake us up in our short Earth lives!

There is another way to learn...which I will talk more about in another blog but for now...

I feel, we would achieve much more of what our true self wants by coming into ALIGNMENT rather than Acting as if!

 

Because if we really cleared out our conditioning then we would be authentically choosing who we are. 

We would be able to WITNESS our conditioning, our repeating patterns and the messages that Soul sends our way!

We would be WILLING to do the work that it is going to take to become the version of OURSELVES that is needed to have the relationship, the money, the family, the career and the dream life!

We would check in with our inner child and get to know our EGO so that we can PARENT OURSELVES into our future with understanding, compassion and discernment.

We would recognise when Soul is delivering MESSAGES to us so that we can work from our INTUITION rather than our heads.

And we would STOP when we saw an old pattern emerging or have no inner guidance from Soul and take it as a message that we need to do some checking in with ourselves or that we need to wait before taking our next steps.

Because this is all how we truly GET THERE!

 

Now, don't get me wrong. There may be times when faking it till you make it has it's place.

Maybe you have trouble with your confidence and by faking it (whilst taking action of course in your chosen area of confidence practice) you train yourself to trust yourself!

I'm ALL about that kind of work.

BUT...what Acting As If does, if we Spiritualise it away, is create a lineage of people who forget that the true Inner Work is what it takes to become the version of you that is calling you to rise up from within!

We forget that it's going to take discipline, willingness and a connection to ourselves to show us that we can do it. Especially when we feel like we can't because it feels messy and scary and difficult!

And so...I feel the need to share this with you to clear up any misunderstandings that "Acting As If" may be creating in spiritual community.

There is ALLOWING and ALIGNMENT vrs ACTING and ABANDONING the Self....I know which one I'm choosing.

How about you?..


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Let's Align with our true selves instead of having to Act! 

 

Speak soon love, 

 

Gail.x.